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Rising Above The Great Frustration: How To Thrive in a Downturn
The job market is undeniably challenging right now, even for those at the peak of their careers. If you’ve been feeling stuck, uncertain,...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Jan 18, 20255 min read


Best of 2024: Growth, Achievements, and Learnings
2024 has been a year of remarkable growth, thoughtful reflection, and lessons that will shape the years ahead. It’s been a journey of...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Dec 30, 20246 min read


Painting Your Path: Year-End Reflections and Strategies to Color a Brighter 2025
As we approach the end of the year, it’s natural to pause and take stock. Among my community of coachees, leaders, and professionals (and...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Dec 22, 20246 min read


From Reflection to Execution: A Step-by-Step Guide to Annual Planning
As the year comes to a close, the buzz around New Year’s resolutions hits its peak. Gym memberships skyrocket, planners fly off the...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Dec 9, 20246 min read


Toxic Teams: Where Alliances Go Too Far
Picture this: You join a new team at a massive global corporation, only to find it feels more like a family drama than a professional...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Dec 2, 20244 min read


Building a Portfolio Career: Design a Work Life on Your Terms
Recently, I’ve noticed a significant increase in people reaching out to work with me, eager to make a major shift in how they structure...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Nov 12, 20245 min read


Why the “Perfect Day” Routine is Overrated (and What Actually Works)
You’ve heard the hype. Wake up at 4 a.m., and you’ll float out of bed feeling like a feather, totally ready to conquer the world....

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Nov 4, 20244 min read


Work, Art, and Amore: Leadership Lessons from the Streets of Rome
I recently spent four unforgettable days in Rome with my book club, where we soaked up art, history, and pasta in every possible form....

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Oct 27, 20245 min read


What Managers Need to Go From Firefighting to Multiplying
A few weeks ago, I came across an article in The Economist titled "What Makes a Good Manager?" It sparked something in me, so I brought...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Oct 21, 20247 min read


Why Professionals Are Leaving Dublin: My Personal Take After 12 Years
A large majority of my clients are expats from all around the world—some living in Dublin, others considering relocating here. It’s...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Oct 14, 20249 min read


Why You Need to Stop Hiding Behind Modesty and Embrace Your Superpowers
We’ve all been there—caught in that uncomfortable space between wanting to showcase our talents and not wanting to come off as arrogant. ...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Sep 30, 20245 min read


How to Lead Effectively Across Cultures: Lessons in Power Distance and Directness
When a Chinese-American coachee recently shared her experience with the communication style differences between herself and her new...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Sep 23, 20247 min read


Can You Be Friends with Your Employees and Still Be Respected as a Leader?
I’m friends with many people who used to report directly to me. I’ve invited them to my kids' birthday parties, some have become my coaching clients, and I know their families just as they know mine. Our relationships have evolved well beyond the office walls. Recently, at a dinner party at my house, one of my former reportee’s 6-year-old daughter discovered that her dad used to work for me. In the middle of the meal, she blurted out in shock, “This house belongs to your bos

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Sep 16, 20246 min read


Investing in Your Own Growth: The Best Decision You'll Ever Make as a Leader
Remember when we were kids? We'd fearlessly dive into new adventures—whether crafting a messy art project, learning an instrument, or...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Sep 9, 20246 min read


Getting Comfortable with Rejection: Rethinking the Power of “No”
With my birthday just around the corner, I’ve been planning a getaway to Lisbon, one of my favorite cities, with a few close friends....

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Sep 2, 20245 min read


Bouncing Back from Layoffs: A Guide to Resetting Your Career in 2024
Silicon Valley continues to experience significant upheaval, as the tech industry's push for efficiency shows no signs of slowing down....

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Aug 26, 20244 min read


How to Manage an Employee Out: A Leader’s Guide to Compassionate and Professional Transition
Last week, during a coaching session with one of my coachees, we covered a topic that most leaders dread — managing an employee out. My coachee, a relatively new leader of 2-3 years, was grappling with the decision to let go of an underperforming team member. This would have been her first time managing someone out, and it was dreadful and mind-boggling. Let me share the insights we discussed, along with some personal reflections, on how to approach this delicate process wit

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Aug 19, 20245 min read


The 10 Toxic Boss Types and How They Hurt Your Business
During a leadership workshop I led last week, the conversation turned to toxic bosses—a topic many of us, unfortunately, know all too...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Aug 11, 20245 min read


Performance vs. Authenticity: Can They Co-Exist?
One of my long-time coachees, let's call him Mike, recently faced a common leadership dilemma: Can you be humble and honest while also...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Jul 29, 20244 min read


Entitlement vs. Self-Drivenness: How Leaders Can Build a Culture of Ownership
Not long ago, a coachee of mine, let's call her Jane, found herself grappling with a perplexing issue. Jane had built a vibrant and...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Jul 16, 20245 min read
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