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The Hidden Cost of Bad Meetings: Why Leaders Lose More Than Time
Most teams spend more time in meetings than they realize — and even more time recovering from the unproductive ones. Before you fix your meeting culture, it helps to see what’s actually going wrong. And let’s be honest: every workplace has its own collection of meeting disasters.

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Nov 247 min read


Leading Through Layoffs: How Great Managers Handle Tough Transitions
Few leadership moments test your integrity like a layoff. There’s no easy way to tell someone their role is being eliminated. Even when it’s necessary — a restructuring, a funding slowdown, a market shift — it leaves a mark on everyone involved. And while companies often focus on legal compliance, messaging, and PR risk, what really defines a leader in these moments is how they show up. Layoffs aren’t just about who leaves. They’re about who stays.

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Nov 175 min read


The Five Qualities High Achievers Share: Lessons From Coaching Hundreds of Leaders Across Cultures
Every week I sit with ambitious, talented, capable leaders who—on paper—look nothing alike. A founder in Berlin. A director in Dublin. A senior executive in Singapore. A first-time people manager in New York. Different industries. Different backgrounds. Different passports and parenting stories. And yet… the same patterns emerge. High achievers don’t share a personality. They don’t share a resume. They don’t even share a temperament. What they do share is the ability to o

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Nov 105 min read


A Tricky Leadership Transition: How to Lead People Who Used to Be Your Peers
Stepping into a management role is already a shift in identity. Stepping into a management role over people who used to be your peers is a different kind of stretch. This is where many new managers get stuck. They know how to do the work. They are less sure about how to lead people who knew them before they were “the manager.”

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Nov 38 min read


The Leadership Skill No One Teaches: How to Create Space for Strategic Thinking (When You're Drowning in Tactical Work)
A few months ago, a founder I coach said something I hear almost every week: "I feel like I'm juggling twenty balls, and none of them can drop." She runs a fast-growing startup. Her calendar is a wall of back-to-back meetings. She's managing a team, closing deals, mentoring, hiring, fundraising, fixing ops issues. If this sounds familiar to you, you are not alone. Whether you're a founder, an executive, or a people manager, the reality is the same: You're constantly pul

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Oct 306 min read


Why High-Caliber Candidates Reject Your Job Offer (Before You Even Make It)
You spent six weeks finding the perfect candidate. She nailed every interview. The team loved her. The offer package was ready. Then came the email: “I’ve decided to pursue another opportunity.” It’s easy to blame compensation, timing, or “the market.” But most of the time, candidates aren’t rejecting your offer. They’re rejecting your process. When the Process Sends the Wrong Signal I had coffee recently with Marcus, a VP of Engineering who’d lost three senior hires in a

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Oct 275 min read


If You Can Fix the Leak, Say So: Why Personal Brand Is a Leadership Responsibility
There's a Buddhist parable I come back to when I'm coaching leaders who shy away from visibility. A group sits in a room. It starts to rain. A leak appears in the ceiling. Water drips — quiet at first, then relentless. Everyone shifts their chairs. Someone grabs a bucket. The conversation continues, but now everyone's distracted, uncomfortable, trying to work around the problem. One of them is a plumber. She sees the problem immediately. She knows exactly how to fix it. She's

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Oct 126 min read


Building Your Own Thing (Even if You Don’t Exactly Feel “Entrepreneurial”)
Ten years ago I was on the terrace at Google’s San Francisco office telling a friend, “I’m not starting a company.” She felt the same. We were happy at work, growing fast, earning well —and quite frankly would have no idea how to make that leap. Fast-forward to now: We both run our own businesses — and we’re happy we jumped. We wouldn't have it any other way. I coach a lot of professionals at that same edge. One of them — let’s call her Amy — who inspired this article, was

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Oct 67 min read


How to Build a Culture of Accountability Without Micromanaging
Google didn’t scale to 190,000 employees by micromanaging. Here’s how you can build the same kind of accountability. When Connor (not his...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Sep 287 min read


Growing Exponentially After Product-Market Fit: Who to Hire First, Spend Vs Grow, and How You Lead Before You Scale
You’ve done the hard part: built the MVP, tested it, found signs of product-market fit. Maybe your early customers love it, you’ve got...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Sep 218 min read


The 68 vs. 1 Rule: How Leaders Handle Outlier Feedback Without Losing the Plot
It was 2:07 AM and I was staring at the ceiling, replaying two paragraphs of feedback in my head for the hundredth time. Earlier that...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Sep 85 min read


The First Five Minutes Rule: Why Day One Sets the Tone for Years
Eight years later, she still remembered the message. It was 2016, and I was preparing to welcome a new hire to our team at Google. She...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Sep 87 min read


The Great Corporate Exodus: Why Senior Executives Are Trading Corner Offices for Kitchen Tables
Inside the accelerating trend of C-suite leaders becoming entrepreneurs—and what it means for the future of work At 2:47 PM on a Tuesday,...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Aug 257 min read


The Red that Made Billions: What McDonald's Color Psychology Teaches Leaders About the Science of Influence
How a simple color choice became one of the most powerful influence experiments in business history—and what Robert Cialdini's research...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Aug 189 min read


What Money Can't Buy
Why the most successful leaders I coach never mention salary first Last weekend, I found myself at a dinner table with six accomplished...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Aug 115 min read


Where to Find Great Talent
(And Why You Might Be Looking in the Wrong Places) Whether you're a founder building from the ground up or a corporate executive scaling...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Aug 44 min read


You Don’t Need a CxO — Until You Do
Startups are built on extremes. You’re either scrappy or bloated. You’re doing it all yourself or over-hiring too soon. You’re...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Aug 34 min read


Leading on Low Battery: Why It Doesn’t Work
I have been working with a brilliant CRO of a fast-scaling tech company for the last 2 years. Sharp as a tack. Big vision. Hired well....

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Jul 214 min read


The Questions Executive Coaches Ask (That You Can Ask Yourself)
Last week, I was having drinks with a friend who's spent 20+ years climbing the ladder at the same company - a global giant with great...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Jul 216 min read


How to Show Executive Presence in Leadership Interviews (Without Faking It)
Leadership interviews aren’t just about ticking boxes. They’re about signaling who you are and what you are capable of delivering. Are...

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Jul 77 min read
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