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The Relational Balance Sheet: Adult Friendship and the Professional Benefits of Community
A senior executive I coach recently sat in the armchair opposite me, took a long sip of espresso, and asked a deceptively simple question: “Merve, why am I so profoundly lonely?” This is a man with a striking curriculum vitae, a seat on two prominent boards, and an enviable global network. He is an expatriate, navigating life far from his Mediterranean roots. Yet, as he entered mid-life, he looked around his beautifully appointed living room and realized it was structurally h

Merve Kagitci Hokamp
Jun 298 min read
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